Start your divorce process with the end in mind. If you and your spouse have children together, you’ll be in each other’s lives forever–your kids will want both mom and dad at their soccer games, college graduation, wedding, etc. While you’ll no longer be husband and wife, you’ll always be mom and dad and everyone will be better off if mom and dad can remain friends with one another and accepting of any new future relationships. So far, the Bezos’ appear to be leading by example, moving through the process amicably and speaking fondly of their years together.